Over reacting?

Question

SO does like everything for his sister's baby & her.

But when it comes to my pregnancy. He won't even touch my tummy when he moves or do little things I ask.

His sister just had surgery and cannot watch her son properly, so he is babysitting.. But I constantly feel left out.

Am I over reacting because I want him to be involved with me as much as he is with her son..?

Answer

U are Ur being selfish it's his sister so blood known her longer than u and second she's in a bad way so his doing what a brother should

Answer

Have you tried talking to him about this? From a calm place of course. There may be reasons he isn't touching your stomach. I can understand feeling like he's putting more time and attention into his sister and her son, but it sounds like she is in serious need right now. Is there anyone else available to help to relieve your SO of some of those duties?

Answer

I think it might be a little bit of both. You have ever right to feel upset especial if you feel he isn't giving your proper support with the child yall have made together.  That being said don't get upset with him for helping his sister, he is just showing her compassion foucs on telling him how you feel about yall relationship and it might open some helpful discussion. As for the not waiting to rub your stomach, even if he was close to his sister that probably just freaks him out my BIL was the same way when is wife was pregnant he just couldn't get passed the idea that it didn't hurt her and it made him nervous

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