I live in WV my family and friends live in nj or mass. My in laws and I don't get along. I can't go to NJ or Mass for a shower cuz I'm on bed rest. My best friend come here in June so she was going to sent out invitation to my friends and family. And make it on day that no one can make during the week at night. So I still can get some of the registry with out having to pay for it all myself.