I would like to know how others feel about this. I have one son and he is currently three years old. He has been the biggest blessing to me and as of this month I will graduate from college. My motivation is him. However, he is all I want as in a child forever... My hubby and family want me to have children but I mean I feel selfish but mentally emotionally and all I feel like he is enough and I don't want anymore children. I feel selfish at times because he won't have brothers and or sisters but I just can't imagine doing this over again. Keep in mind my son has had pneumonia, oral surgery which he had to be put to  sleep, stitches, jadance, colic. We just now getting to a great age and it's so fun and I'm sorry but I don't want anymore children. I look up to you mommy's with two, three, four kids but it's just not the kind of family I want... Is this selfish of me?