So we have been ttc just over nine months now and we have always been worried about my husband's sperm count due to him having low T while. He finally went to the clinic to test his boys and we just got a call yesterday that his count was fine but for the shape of his sperm (mortility and morphology) was only at 8% and normal is 40%.  She referred us to a fertility specialist which I made an appointment. I don't know how to feel. I feel bad for my husband bc he feels like a failure and I told him not at all that we will get through this and there are many options.   Anyone else can relate or have advice for me?   I can really use some help. I have t told this to anyone.