Why is it when I  fertile my husband is always tired?  He said to me on Sunday that we will BD on Tuesday and Wednesday because I told him I was starting my fertile window. So Tuesday is here and he was sleeping before I got home at 8:15. So now I am again sitting here upset. I feel like I am just missing out on the opportunity to attempt to get pregnant.  No wonder why I just want to constantly quit trying to convince because I am the one always put through the pain. I pee on sticks all the time, go to acupuncture, chart my fertility but what does it matter if he won't have sex with me! So my rant is over and now what do I do?