Nursery, baby shower, GAH!

DeJa'nay
I'm slowly but surely stressing out... I live a long way from my family & friends, so I'm debating on whether or not I should have a baby shower... I really want one but MY family wouldn't be able to make it... 
Her nursery is NO WHERE near finished. Her crib isn't here. Not due until June 19th but my OB keeps telling me to watch out for her early! On top of that my husband & I may be loving (AGAIN) before she gets here so do I even worry about the nursery? 😓😓  help?