Me and my boyfriend have been together for four years in May. July of last year we had our first daughter together.I already have an 8 year old daughter by a previous relationship. For three and a half years I have been trying to get him to get a place together so we can start our family. This past year I tried to do the same thing and it was the same excuses and answers as always. Now just recently he asked me if he could get his own place. my response was :you can get your own place but don't expect me to be happy for you I've been trying for three and a half years to get a place so we could be a complete family and you've always had an excuse I also told him that it is clear to me that you're asking this question that you're not ready to commit or settle down and he is reply was wow thats all I got for a response my question is what should i do should I just take a little break or see if he get his own place and go from there?