How much is to much freedom???

Terezita • Bfp 4-2-15 due date 12-14-15.. 1st baby Its a girl!!
Mi and my So like to give space. The only problem is that when i go out with the girls during the day and he later around 6-8 usually he out playing soccer with the boys. I use to go with him then got bored. Since i stop going he comes home around 9pm but always call mi. I let him out one time to the club with his boys he come home at the time we set. Tonight he ask to go out again and i say yes. But i didn't want him to go uggghh. I just dont wont him to feel like i control him and i want him to go out with his boys. Last relationship was horrible no space what so ever. This one give mi more space and i love it but idk how much space should i give him??? Sorry so long