this is a big topic for me! Haha, my partner and I have been together for a number of years I was driving myself crazy over the thought of 'hitting the spot' technical terms having an orgasm, we tried lots of times different ways, tricks stuff like that it never worked, LADIES here is a tip that you must keep in note!! TRY NOT TO THINK ABOUT THE FACT OF WANTING AN ORGASM!!! Me an my partner finally forgot about it and BAM!! what do you know???? I orgasmed we are that use to the whole thing now that I orgasm every single time we have sex and believe it or not they last for around 5-6 minutes the more times I did it over the months the more intense they got, it started off little orgasm twinges now it's full blown hot orgasm contractions where I am left moaning and screaming all the way through the orgasm, my whole body feels the explosion and to top it off I squirt pretty intensively!!😍😍😍😍😍 my partner has already ejaculated by now so while I'm having my body clenching orgasm he just leaves it in so I can enjoy it and he enjoys and loves the feel of my vagina contracting and tightening to massage his manly hood! this leaves him moaning quite a lot,this is pretty intense, also we achieved my first ever orgasm through fore play to start then various sexual positions and to strike the gold we do cow girl facing away with me bouncing up and down! so yeah that's my story and some tips and tricks 💦👄 comment what you think! Any questions? just leave a comment!