So when ever my husband is wanting to have sex I will always say yes, for one its because I enjoy it so much and another cuz it's so far in between when we do have sex. But when I ask he always says he not in the mood. Its always on his timing and hardly ever on mine. I've tried dressing up in sexy outfits n looking cut. I've tried giving him a blow job to start it but he says he's not wanting to and he said well maybe we can buy porn but I said like you will turn off your sports for that, which he wouldn't lol. So dose anyone else struggle with this? What are some suggestions that I could try to get him to have sex lol