Is it just me, or does anyone else get frustrated or irritated when people say "do NOT announce untill your 12 week mark" I inderstand the risk of miscarrying in the first trimester, but I would think the support from your close family and friends would be helpful, a life is a life no matter how early it is, I'm my opinion should be celebrated! It kind of makes it feel downplayed when telling someone and the first think they say is "don't tell people yet!" Brings the momentum down, anyone else agree? I think the mother and father should beable to openly and freely decide when to tell people without feeling stupid