Used and abused

Is it just me, or do you feel more used and abused, not physically but mentally and emotionally and, idk time-ly, by your girl friends (I mean friends who are girls)? 
I have two great girl friends and two that I would rather stab my eyes out then answer their call, especially knowing that there gonna ask for something, and then not appreciate or completely disrespect me.
This is why I love my guy friends, but I feel like I'm the only one...