I don't want hubby's family to know until I'm 8 weeks but I want to tell my family tonight (5 weeks). Husband wants to tell his family if I tell mines tonight. Husband's family, who are in a different state, wouldn't understand or be as supportive if there was a miscarriage as much as my side of the family. I would not want his family to know if there was a miscarriage.  We barely see his family so it would be easier to hide it for now. Unlike my family, I see them every week and we are very close and we usually drink! They'll be really suspicious if I say no. Should I just tell my family tonight and hope hubby doesn't get mad or tell his family?