Premenopause??? I'm 36! HELP!!!

So last year my doc told me I was in perimenopause, but fell pregnant and miscarried at 5 weeks this last December. Since then my periods have been irregular. In March my opk was positive, had sex, no pregnancy. In April I had a normal cycle but all my OPKs came out negative. No ovulation. 😦 On April 30th I spotted once and that was it. I was suppose to start my period on the 10th. Nothing, took 11 pregnancy tests. ALL negative. So here are symptoms of premenopause:

Hot flashes (I don't have this)

Breast tenderness (Nope)

Worse premenstrual syndrome( Nope)

Lower sex drive (most definitely not)

Fatigue (nope)

Irregular periods (yes)

Vaginal dryness (UM not even close)

Urine leakage when coughing or sneezing (I've had this since my son was born in 2001)

Mood Swings (not anything unusual)

Trouble sleeping (have had insomnia since I was a teen)

So aside from being irregular I really don't see any difference. The last two times my hubs and I had sex I bled but no pain. It did not continue. Is it possible to still get pregnant knowing all this? I'm so worried, I need to stop stressing! 😢 Help! I do have a doc appointment on Monday!