Any other FTM not engaged yet?? I'll be 37 weeks in 3 days and my cervix isn't dilated at all and baby is very high up still. I'm having an ultrasound in a few days to see how big baby is because my doctor said her head might not fit through my pelvis. I know there is still plenty of time for her to drop but I've read being its my first baby they usually should be engaged by now..