Just sad.

Nadine • Pregnant via IVF ❤️
My hubby has been an amazing help throught my pregnancy. I understand that there are things that I have had to sacrifice and I have done and would do again in a heartbeat.. I have been taking it easy throughout the pregnancy when it comes to my social outings, I generally stay in and take a bath, paint my nails etc.. My husband and I work full time long hours so we don't see each other much during the week and never get a chance to do things together. Usually we spend the weekends together but since I have been pregnant he arranges to do things with his friends instead.. He is always out all weekend and I never see him.. He doesn't even care if he doesn't see me all weekend! even though it makes me sad I don't nag at him to stay or try and force him to hang out with me.  This weekend he went out clubbing all night and rang me (35 weeks pregnant btw) in the early hours of the morning to pick him up and then just left again a few hours later to hang out with his friends for the weekend.. This time I told him I was not feeling well and was a bit lonely and I asked him to stay, he completely ignored me and went anyway and still hasn't come home or contacted me to see if I am ok.. I know I am just overreacting and it's hardly an issue but I haven't been this sad in a long time.. It hurts.
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Me

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I am sad for you. You are a much nicer person than me. I would be making his life a living hell

Mi

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You aren't overreacting at all! That's ridiculous and totally immature. You need to have a serious conversation. Good luck! You don't deserve to be treated like that. Don't pick him up ever, stay in bed and rest, if he wants to go play single man then he can't have your help too.I'd be really hurt if my hubby went to a club :-( *hugs to you!!!*

me

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please show him this post! it sounds like he might be trying to get all his partying in before the baby (or atleast I hope that's the case) but doing it every weekend is a bit ridiculous! tell him you need him! I'm sure he will understand, he probably hasn't realised how it's affecting you! good luck chick 😊

El

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My hubby isn't allowed to get drunk this close to the babies arrival lol. We spoke about it and he agrees, he doesn't want to be hungover,or even worse DRUNK when I'm In labour. I have been t total for 9 months he can do it for one lol. As for not spending time with you I would be really upset too. Maybe a compromise like every other weekend? One weekend he spends with you the next he can take a day with friends. Spending the whole weekend with friends is something you don't do on a regular basis when you have a family x

Al

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He sounds just like my SO and its ridiculous. If we have to sacrifice so much so should they! My SO are struggling pretty bad because of this issue. Just makes it seem like he doesn't give two shits about me or our baby.

Mo

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I don't think you're over reacting .. This sounds slightly similar to my situation and I am about to just pack up and leave I'm so fed up with the nonsense..it's not fair I have had to sacrifice everything and he just goes on doing whatever when this is what he wanted so badly. I feel the only way to make him realize is to leave .. But that's with my situation. I feel sorry for you :( I know how hard it is 

An

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My s.o on his own said that If I can't drink he feels he shouldn't either,we're each others best friends granted we do go out but it's as groups.I would be so upset knowing how much u have to sacrifice and he's doing whatever he wants..