Does it make me a bad person?

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I am constantly seeing people announce that they're pregnant. And I just can't help but have a little hatred towards them. They're Newley pregnant and due in like 2016 or late 2015 and my baby was suppose to be due November 26th but I lost it and I just hate everyone that's newly pregnant that I knew at one point. Because they're gonna have what was taken away from me. Does that make me a bad person ?

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I feel the same. A girl I used to work with announced on FB today and has same due date that we did. I instantly 'unfollowed' her. I can't bear to see her go on about it. I feel like I deserve a baby more - that's horrible isn't it.. :( xx

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No no no it dont make you a bad person o had a miscarriage in January and I feel the same way. Some times I feel it's not fair  here I am happily married wanting a child and there women getting abortions are having kids and treating them like trash and young little girls getting pregnant on their first try without the intentions of getting pregnant and have no father of the child around I just feel it's not fair

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I've been having the same emotions. Lost my baby girl at 21 and 1/2 weeks and have had 4 different people that I know give birth to their perfectly healthy children and I feel a sense of disgust whenever I look at the pictures. Everyone grieves differently but I know exactly how you feel because the same emotions are going through my body right now

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Not at all. I had a really really hard time after my mc in January. Several family members and friends announced they were due around the same time I was going to be. I'd get mad at random pregnant women in the grocery store and it seemed like every time I got up the courage to go to church (I'm still pretty mad at the guy upstairs) there was a baptism.

Try to work past it, after all it's not their fault, but grieve as you need to. I definitely suggest finding someone to talk to.

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Thanks girls ❤️❤️

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I have been feeling the same. My cousin in law was due the same day as me which is my birthday. I lost that baby after 5 weeks. I ended up pregnant again and lost this baby last week at 6 weeks. We had a baby a month apart last year and it just doesn't seem fair that I now have lost two and she is still pregnant. Me and my husband was trying and she wasn't. It pissed me off because she calls me and talks about the baby which we found out she is having a boy and that is what we wanted to.

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I lost my baby last Wednesday at 6weeks and I'm having a really hard time with pregnancy announcements as well and being around children. I'm also having a hard time with this app because it reminded me to take my prenatal vitamins even though I never set a reminder and it knows I lost the baby. Smh :(

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We lost our baby due November 3rd at 8 weeks. I felt that resentment as well, and even though I'm newly pregnant again Nurture still shows me the posts from November 15 bumps and I get a little mad seeing them reveal the gender and feeling kicks because our Dyllan never got there.

You gotta turn it around though. It will eat you up inside and can actually make it harder to conceive again.

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Its normal. I took me awhile to be semi OK around pregnant ladies or new moms. As selfish as it sounds I don't think I will be completely happy until I am pregnant again. Or at least that's how I feel at this moment.

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It doesn't make you a bad person at all... It's very normal to feel resentment...
You've to try and turn this around as you dont want it to eat you up inside... 
It isn't easy, it never will be but there are positives out there.... Big hugs xx

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