So for 2 years my husband always swore being a stay at home mother was soooooo easy. When the house was messy he would get mad and tell me it's part of being a stay at home mom to keep the house clean. He was home with our almost 2 year old son while I was still in the hospital after having our daughter. I was in there 3 days due to prodacall. Well i got out and came home and the house was a disaster! I told him the house was making me mad bc I can't stand a dirty house. He finally said keeping it clean is nearly impossible. Now he finally apologized for always giving me a hard time. A stay at home mother of a 2 year old and a newborn is a job all on its own. We stay at home moms work hard!