Am I overreacting? Cheating??

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Long story short, my bfs phone went off yesterday evening. It was the Facebook messenger app and it was from a girl. He had obviously been deleting the messages because when I looked at it, it was her reply obviously responding to something he said. I couldn't tell if he had been flirting w her since he deleted his reply but am I being stupid for getting so upset? I'm 7 1/2 months pregnant and I can't seem to get over this. I'm just so pissed he deleted the messages and he was keeping something away from me. I've been an emotional wreck this whole pregnancy and this shit doesn't help one bit
Some people say cheating doesn't have to be intimate, one you find yourself deleting messages you're already there 😖😢😡

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I just went thru the same thing. My fiance has been deleting messages. When I asked him why he told me cause I was gonna get upset either way but it was nothing. I feel if its nothing why delete.. That means u had something to hide. I feel ya anger

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Yes an emotional affair hurts just as much and is just as terrible as a physical affair. It is CHEATING! Hope for you that is not what's going on but sounds fishy.

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Your NOT an emotional wreck! Technology used the wrong way has brought soooo much pain, drama, hurt into ppl lives! Why did he delete it if it was so innocent? Facebook, and all these dating sites, are causing major relationships issues at home when used the wrong way! He should be BLESSED carrying his child. I understand your pain, Facebook in Tagged have caused me a miscarriage from the stress my husband has caused me... Am only with him, because of my faith that one day he will change.. Good luck, and if needed upload an app to monitor his device!

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what's that saying about cheating - "if you have to delete something so your partner won't see it, you're already there" or something along those lines!  confront him and see what he says. gl!

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Been there, it sucks. Be open and tell him you know. You can even go as far as telling him that you understand that talking to other girls like that may be fun, but he is hurting the other girl, you,  your child, and your relationship. That Temptation May always be there though.

Am I overreacting? Cheating??

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