So this is our 4th month TTC #1. I'm 38 and hubby is 36. Feel like we've been doing everything right and timing out BD and everything and so far, nothing. Trying the smep this month, although we couldn't bd on cd 8 like it recommended. Did bd last night, cd 10. Just feeling like its never going to happen for us. It's hard to bd when we're supposed to since we are hardly ever in the mood at the same time. We do bd during the days we should, but I'm not sure if it's enough. Anyhow, just needed to vent!