Ok, so my bf, now fiance proposed without a ring the other day (it was really sweet) and the other morning while I was on the bed gooing at our son, he came in the room and put an open ring box on his chest, I was completely surprised because I was under the assumption we were going to pick out a ring together. Although I love what he did, and I think the ring is beautiful, there is color on it, I tried living with it for a couple days to see how I felt about it but every time I look at it my eyes automatically draw to the color...it kinda makes my stomach turn that I feel this way..i just feel so selfish, I should be grateful for what he did and I am, it's just that one thing. I said something to him this morning and he seemed to get offended and it broke my heart. I felt like I was telling him I didn't love him anymore, that's how hurt he looked...he hasn't said anything else sense. I still want to have it changed to match the rest of the ring. I don't know what to do, anyone else ever had this problem and have advice.. this is my ring