Acceptable or Unacceptable for your man to glance at other women?

Question

When I catch boyfriend glance at other woman and I call him out. He says it isn't the case. If I look aty surroundings when people pass(people watching)  but he thinks I'm looking at other men. When clearly I know the case but he says the same about himself. His actions definitely speak louder that he only desires me but this is the one topic issue we have in our relationship.

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Guys have eyes. Women look nice. If you're in a public area, there WILL be women unless you're in a gay strip club. This means if he looks straight ahead, he will see women. If he looks to the side, he will see women. If he looks behind him, he will see women. If he looks down at the ground he will see women's shoes AND look like a weirdo with self esteem issues.

To solve your problem, put horse blinders on his eyes and restrain his neck in such a way that he will only be looking at you. You will also need to stand close enough to him at all times in order for this to be effective, as he may be able to see women behind you (like off in the distance) as well.

I suggest a form of metal to hold his neck in place. It'll be harder to break.

Good luck.

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I think its normal...now if he lingers too long then i would point it out. I actually point out girls first so i at least know what he looking at lol

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If he's messing with you and deliberately looking at them as a power thing, it's a problem.  If he's just a healthy horny guy whose eyes subconsciously find a pretty girl, consider yourself lucky that he's got a healthy libido and he's deliberately focusing his conscious attention on you.

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I just laugh if I see him looking. Usually i'm the one that says that another girl is pretty. I trust him, just because he looked at someone for a second doesn't mean he's going to fantasize about them.

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I check out other women with my husband.

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Its fine. Our relationship is based on so much more than attraction. If I can find other people attractive and still be as committed and in love as I am, he can too.

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I give my husband a dirty look when I catch him. But I can't be to mean because he has caught me before.

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Lol, If the girl is hot enough I'll point her out to my SO. Even being straight, I can appreciate a beautiful person like a fine work of art. I trust my SO completely though and he has never done anything to make me feel less then the most beautiful woman on earth in his eyes.

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If he's just glancing then it's fine, if a hot stud walked into the room would you not glance at him? As long as he's not "checking her out up and down"

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My husband checks out other girls, usually under the excuse is checking for his friends. I call him out on it, but I know he's gonna look, he's a male. They can't help it.

Acceptable or Unacceptable for your man to glance at other women?

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