So I'm a military wife and since my husband will b getting deployed I bought myself a toy so you know I can keep myself pleasured and stuff while he is gone. But he doesn't like the idea says he wants me to b tight that I don't need to put anything up there and honestly I'm mad because I wanted to use it.  I even wanted him to use it on me. While he got hard but maybe I'm just to much of a freak for him.  Opinions ?