Guy question- help please

Debby
So there's this guy, I am in love with him. He is the first person I have ever loved. I'm 16, he's 18.we live about 45 mins away from each other bcuz I recently moved. He is coming up here where I am for college, and we are just friends for now. He says he has stuff going on and doesn't want to involve me because it's not fair to me. And once he gets his shit together basically and figured out his feelings we'll be together. He just started working and we barely talk once or twice a day briefly.. I want him to open up and tell me what's going on because if he can't trust me with his life now, how us he supposed to ever trust me, and how are we ever supposed to have a relationship in the future? I don't want to lose him, but I might to to let him go... :/