How to deal with a hoe?

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He wanted a baby and now I'm about to have one soon. This is our first child & we love eachother. We are only 18 and I'm 7 months pregnant. I'm now single bc he's always texting girls & flirting with them. And always on Instagram trying to text/talk to new ones. I know the answer is leave and I left. But I don't want to lose him. And I hate this it's making me want to break down. What do I do ? 😭

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You answered the question yourself. Move on and focus on yourself and your child. Guys like that don't change.

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Okay, I may be a bit older but I'm dealing with mybabyfather  little girlfriend whom is 20 years old. I am currently 32 weeks pregnant; I found out when I was 8 weeks pregnant that my Boyfriend at the time had a little side chick and not only that was also sleeping with her while living with me, I felt the same way j didn't want to lose him I didn't want us to have a split family so I wanted him around NOWWWWWW AT 32 weeks I HAVE A RESTRAINING ORDER because he thought he was able to be the way he was and yet still be in my life and of course his little girlfriend kept threatening me and my unborn .. So my advice to you is RUN; let him go, he will eventually come back I promise you that but don't fall for it like I did. It's not healthy for you or the baby. Let him do what he wants he will regret it in the long run!

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I'd leave. Straight the fuck up, leave. Nobody has time for that shit, & it hurts but you need to. He obviously doesn't care.

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I am a young mom myself. My boyfriend and I had our son when we were 18 and really not prepared. He wasn't ready, neither was I at first but that changed quick. He wasn't so quick to do the same and distanced himself. I was scared and did not give him some of the space he probably needed. And he just would push me away. 
It was very rocky in the beginning and still can be sometimes. We are still together learning and still young. I can relate to your experience. We are both 23 now and expecting #2. But looking back I feel strongly that we would have grown together no matter what and even if he would have stayed away- if I could go back I would and given him the time he needed no matter what. 
My only advice:
He's young but either leave and let him be for now or chase him but either way he's going to have to grow up on his own- and you know he's not right now because of his actions. So it's up to you if you want to put up with that heartache and stick by him.

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You may want to look into counseling to help you out with your emotions & to help you stay strong! I know it's hard being a single mother at any age, but especially at 18! Just stay strong & know that you can do this! This will only make you stronger. In the end your child will be so proud of you & respect you that much more for being able to get through this!

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You might love him, but honestly, if he's constantly looking for another girl, he doesn't love or respect you. You deserve better. Leave him and focus on yourself and your baby.

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Just leave, with time you'll realize that it was the best choice for the moment. Maybe when he matures you guys can try to build a romantic relationship again.

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They don’t change! My step mom stuck by my dad all these years  (almost 26)and guess what she still to this day is getting cheated on. It is sad but she says she loves him even though he doesn’t love her I think he loves having someone to fall back on when he needs it.

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Move on. He's clearly not worth it. If he doesn't want to commit to you there is nothing you can do except get yourself in a good place for your child and yourself. Don't try to stay with a man who doesn't seem to care about you. If he cared he wouldn't be like that.

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He won't change.

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