My family has been very supportive, but my husband's family is being terrible! They keep making us feel guilty for not wanting to be with them and mourn with them. They keep reminding us that they are grieving too and we should include them in our grieving and be with them. It's as if they are the ones who are the victims, suffering the most. It's infuriating! They can't understand that we just want to be alone and grieve just me and my husband. I don't want to talk about it, I just want to reach peace on my own. 

Anyone else in a similar state? Or are my inlaws just crazy? I just hate how they make me feel guilty for wanting to be alone.