Fat...

So I feel like a whale lately. I've gained a normal amount of wait and it's all in the belly. My husband commented about a t-shirt I wore today and asked how long after pregnancy I'll be able to get back into my size small t-shirt. It definitely hurt my feelings I was like well I guess ur ready for me to not be fat anymore and he said yep. I'm glad he's being honest but still it definitely hurt. Sex is difficult which makes it almost nonexistent...this last little stretch is going to be rough with these feelings already :( advice? Or is anyone feeling the same?