Spider bite on toddler?

Mandi 😈💀 • Expecting #2 August '15!
So my son has two bites on his face, one on this temple that really got swollen and finally came to a head today, and now it's a little scabby, and a very small one I'm not even worried about. But then today I saw a HUGE one on his hand! I have been putting honest company healing balm on his face and it seems to make it a little better, and I also put the healing balm on his hand once I noticed it tonight. I think they're spider bites but at the same time I'm not sure. They're shiny because I had just washed them and put fresh cream on them. What do you think? We don't live in an area with super poisonous spiders, except black widows but I know it's not a widow bite but it doesn't look like mosquito or anything 😓