Just totally lost

I recently found out that I am type two and then boom found out I was pregnant with our third child a few weeks later. I feel as if my world is just gone. My friends always pick on me for bringing the healthy food to parties or serving it at my children's parties and at our get togetherness. Andddddd yet it was for nothing I am a bad diabetic. My A1c without fast or whatever is 9.6. Super high. 😳. My sugars had been fine until we loved on base and stopped going to the gym. I used to walk my children to school daily until they begged to start taking the bus with their friends. As soon as I found out everything, I ordered a treadmill. On top of this all my sick mother is visiting and she fell so I listed her and popped something in my back which of course has me in the worst pain ever. Can't take anything for it and my massage place won't see me until I'm 12 weeks along.  My husband says I'm just being a cry baby and maybe I am. I guess I'm just wondering if anyone else is diabetic and pregnant and what to do and how you cope? I'd love to have someone near my age that understands. I'm 27. My children and 6 & 7 and I am 5 weeks along with our third.