Routine took over, lost romance with my hubby :(

I love him to the moon and back and i will till the end of the days. He is my solemate, my friend, my love :) We are married for three years now and its been great. But over some time routine kinda took over: mortgage, work, little baby girl, my school, bills... the usual... we both come home exhausted, we have dinner together, after im off to house work and my husband is just playing games on pc... all the free time he has, he spends at the computer... at first i was ok with it, but not anymore. He explains his obsessive gaming simply by saying that he gets his rest from playing. Hey, i get it even if its not fair to me :( i do not get any attention from him, we never go out, sex comes down to almost nothing... Help, how can i bring back the spark to the relationship?