I need advice please!!

My bf either sleeps all day or plays his game all day. When I try to talk to him bout spending more time with me he gets angry and call me a c#nt and other hurtful stuff. I'm tired of having to talk to him to get him to listen. I love him to death but I can't keep letting him hurt me like this. But every time he wants to do something he's all for it but when I want to do something he says he's to tired or don't feel like it. I just wish things will change cause we have a kid together but idk n e more..