Have you ever left someone because something was missing but everything else was perfect?

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Why did you do it and do you regret it ?

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Yup ... Felt like everything was too perfect. We never argued and I just wasn't happy .. Sometimes I wonder what we would be like . I still care about him but I don't regret it

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(A little confused so don't judge if I answer completely wrong) for the past few weeks I've felt something missing in my relationship but I was gonna ignore it becuase I still really loved him but 2 days ago he said he felt it too and we ended up breaking up, even though it was mostly him doing the breaking up part I'm glad it happened I mean I miss him so much but I'm gonna hope I can find someone that feels completely right, if you don't feel 100% in it then get out you'll find someone who you never knew could be so perfect to you because you deserve nothing less than everything. If it feels wrong it probably is

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I never have but my ex did it with me. He always felt like there was suppose to be something more. He felt like something was off even though everything else was perfect. He had this image of perfection that couldn't be met and this was with everyone. He left me more than I want to admit cause that shows how many times I went back to him but every time he came back he told me I was all he thought about. Of course this could be a line but when his exact would talk to me, every single one of them said he never stopped talking about me and they don't understand why even bother to leave if he was going to obsess over me.

Anyway it was a huge confusing head ache for me because he couldn't just accept that love doesn't mean forever bliss and there would be down sides. He always regretted it and I finally did move on. I moved away and he wished he could have me back. Our relationship was amazing but he couldn't get passed what he thought was missing and hasn't had a relationship lasting over 2 months since. He regretted it.

I'm not sure if this helps much because it is from another view in my case and not my own. But I can say you better be sure because regret and what if can last forever and this person may move on by the time you realize you can't have everything.

How important is the one thing missing? Worth chancing the perfect you already have?

Have you ever left someone because something was missing but everything else was perfect?

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