My husband sex sucks 😢

I am highly saddened and frustrated . My husband of 2 years just can't have sex . He was a virgin when I met him but I wasn't . I've had 2 sexual partners before him and the sex was amazing . Anyway, my husband doesn't give me oral (not once ) doesn't smooch nor lets me give him bj. It sucks terribly . He says he feels "dirty" doing such things . Also he dreams like a girl when I try pulling his foreskin down .Sex is just  standard boob sucking and penetration . And missionary. No new position NOTHING. I have spoken with love as well as anger. Divorce isn't an option coz I love him as a person . He's probably the nicest boy in this world and has heart of gold .Also ,I'm from conservative family. I'm so frustrated I feel like killing him or killing myself . I'm helpless . What do I do ?