Am i wrong!? :(

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My boyfriend wants to have a baby. But i keep telling him before we have a baby i want to get marry (we currently live together) 
He wants to get marry after.
But im telling him to meet me halfway. 
I wanted to get marry before moving in with him , but i moved in with him. Now i want to get marry before we have kids but he doesnt want to? 
What can i do ? I want a baby but after marriage ? Am i wrong?

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Why buy the cow if you get the milk for free. I know this case isn't about the "milk" (usually meaning sex), but it sounds like he wants all the benefits of being married without the commitment. Stick to your guns here - don't give in.

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If he isn't willing to make you a wife then he shouldn't be willing to make you a mother.. Real men will make you a wife first, unless you accidentally become pregnant first... In that case he should do right by you and marry you.. Sounds like commitment issues honey. Sorry

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If you want to wait til marriage then wait. It's your body & you'll most likely be the one left to care for the baby if he splits.

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Your 100% right it looks like he is making excuses

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Why does he want to wait til after a baby? I would not compromise on that one, at least engaged with a ring and date before starting to try for a baby.

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No you are not wrong!!!!! I would stand your ground!!!! Or say you at least want a ring on your finger & engaged!

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Don't give in. You already gave up marriage when you moved in with him don't give it up so he can have babies. Wait to have kids if that's truly what you want

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Not wrong. I did the exact same thing. We got married and pregnant the next day haha

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Not wrong. A baby is a lifetime commitment. So is a marriage. Why does he think he's ready for one but not the other? He can wait until he's ready to fully commit to having a FAMILY with you, instead of compromising and just having a baby with you.

Am i wrong!? :(

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