How do you handle?

I don't know why is bugs me the way it does but I really need some advice on how to handle other people's opioion on how they think about the military.. Such has the comparison between who is braver; Bruce Jenner or Chris Kyle. Or what's going on or what they think is goin on over seas. Or how the men and women really think/feel about it all. I've been an army brat my whole life and then married a solider and I understand my views will be different but it still rubs me the wrong way. Idk maybe I'm just way to hormonal and it's just getting to me but I love my husband and it aggravates me how people can say what they do. So anywho advice please thanks!