No longer a virgin but still insertion pain

Hey glow community. I was abstinent for a very long time in my life but I finally found the right one & gave myself to him in late April. Since then we've had sex about 10 or 11 times but each time it hurts when he puts it in just like it hurt when he took my virginity, & certain positions hurt or make me feel like I have to pee or give me that "feel it in my stomach" feeling. I just wanted to know is all this normal and for how long will it last and is there anything I can do or positions we can try that are more pleasurable than painful for me?