To stay in or to separate?

Question

My husband and I are both active duty and we are expecting. We've been talking about whether or not I should stay in AD, go Reserves or Guard, or to separate.  
I've seen mil to mil couples make it work. Is anyone facing or has faced this same situation? Any thoughts? Thanks in advance...

Answer

I had a friend and her hubby who was both active but once she had her little one she went reserve so she could have more time to enjoy it. But the thing is you want to get out for the right reasons if it's in your heart to stay in then don't do something you'll regret. I know many people who couldn't cope with being outside of the active duty military.

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I'm in the same boat, we are both active duty and our windows are open. I want to stay in and he's on the fence about it. Idk what to do either....

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I know of tons of people who both stay AD. Sometimes when deployments come up it can suck. I've seen it happen where one leaves, comes back and the next one is gone. Which isn't fun for kids. 
Money is awesome tho. At least in the AF

To stay in or to separate?

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