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Question

My husband & I will be married for two years this month & we have a three year old boy. Our sex life literally sucks. We both work full time jobs, but on top of my 40 hour work week, I'm doing housework & taking care of our child. By the time bedtime rolls around, I'm way too tired for sex, & I'm not in the mood. It's just not a "need" anymore to me & it frustrates my husband. We go weeks at a time without making love. Any suggestions?

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Yes. I have a kid too and work full time. But even when my man is very tired there is something he always wants. With our busy lives we make time for it. Put ur kid to sleep early girlfriend. And prep dinner the day before so its easy to do. Then go put on ur sexy maid outfit to clean the kitchen!  We gotta do work in our relationships too. Ur husband will see u and play right into ur hands. We have to do the seducing to sometimes. Also if u hoth are home early in the morning before u leave set ur alarm clock earlier and tackle him sweetly in the bed, then shower, grab breakfast and go to work. Its tiring but u have to put a little effort in. He will appreciate it emmensly and be satisfied. U want ur man satisfied in the bed.
Awaken the naughty text again! Send him a text while he is at work saying that u will do anythi g to devour him in bed tonight and when he gets in from work u need him to handle such and such task to help u around the house, and that way u can make the time for intimacy. All these tips works for me. Sometimes my husband whispers before going to bed exactly what he wants to happen intimately tomorrow. I have been married almost 5 yrs

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It is hard to find time and being exhausted doesn't help but if your husband wants to and your not willing he may be more likely to look elsewhere. Don't let the spark die! Flirt, text, put on something that makes you feel pretty while you cook and he can watch you prance around the kitchen. Men like to feel desired just as much as women do. Once you pay some compliments you should get some in return. You can also try date nights if you have someone to watch your child! Hope this helps!

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Give your man some attention. Make him feel wanted or he will find  someone who will. Please don't take this the wrong way lol

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Set your alarm clock 30min early and do it in the morning. It's worth it, you'll have more energy, and it's one less thing to worry about at the end of the day.

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Girl you better get untired!!! Lol.

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