Rant!

So last spring my SO and I decided together we would start TTC this spring... Well we're here now and he was dodging the topic of starting and finally tonight we talked about it. He now says he wants to delay until December/January just so we will have an October baby and "him and his boy will be scorpios together". We had a surprise pregnancy in Sept which ended in MC, and he knows how much it devastated me and how badly I was looking forward to TTC this spring. Not to mention you don't just MAGICALLY get what you want with regards to gender and timing. Advice?? I'm a little choked that that is the ONLY reason he wants to wait. I just want a healthy baby regardless of timing or gender.....