Ugly comments and bitter women RANT

Okay I've been going through a lot of different posts and I've noticed a lot of the women in this app are so catty and bitter! Question if and when you got your BFP wouldn't you be excited about it and want to show it to your fellow glow friends? I guess what I'm trying to say is lighten up ladies. Were all here for the same reason some of us just get our gifts sooner than others. I just can't get over one lady actually said I how you miscarry and I was like wow your immature and I don't think you should be a mom right now not until you grow up and stop being so hateful..... any thoughts or personal encounters?