You you Positive Polly or Negative Nancy?

Question

Okay ladies! I think I am six weeks but according to my doctors office I am 7 weeks. I haven't had an US. it is June 18th. This is my first pregnancy but ever since I found out I have been so negative. It's like I can't accept there is a baby until I hear the heartbeat. Call me crazy but after all the stories I hear and read about heartbreaking MC. I am so nervous. I haven't had any signs of a MC (Praise The Lord) but I just can't be completely happy? Anyone else?

Answer

This is not crazy, i was the same for the first two weeks after i found out. Like i wouldnt let myself get my hopes up and i was protecting myself by not becoming attached. Heres what helped me: 
Remember that there are more healthy pregnancies then not, we just here of more sad stories because people are more likely to mention a bad experience then a good one.
All babies deserve celeration no matter how long we have them.
As hard as it is to accept, theres no way we can protect ourselves from feeling a loss, but we can protect ourselves from the guilt of thinking we didnt love our baby enough when we had them.

Dont worry, the emotions are just the start of your body telling you things are changing. Youll do great 😊

Answer

Try not to be bc no matter what, we can't control or prevent a MC from happening.  I had one at 20 weeks and now I'm 7 weeks with a new pregnancy.  I was a bit negative when I found out, but lately I'm taking the backseat and letting things happen.  Enjoy every day that you are pregnant and stop worrying!  That's my motto now!  Much 💗 and blessings to you!

You you Positive Polly or Negative Nancy?

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