My husband has this friend he works with who I personally think is extremely annoying and rude. I don't want to go into detail that would take forever but he regularly sleeps in our guestroom (future baby room) after they've been out drinking and I can't stand his presence all the time.

So since I'm pregnant he keeps talking about how he'll better be on the "access list" in the hospital. I don't want him in the hospital and I don't want him to touch my baby. Call me a bitch but he's not a person I would trust with my child.

So I told him he could visit when we're home. But he keeps saying he'd drive down to the hospital and stay there together with my husband. I'm getting really pissed and I need to know how to make him understand that I will not have him there before I freak out and yell at him. I already asked my husband to talk to him since he's his friend and he's slowly starting to understand why I can't stand that guy but he just can't get himself to tell him the truth.