Is it wrong?

Today's my birthday and I get it I'm an adult and its just another day now. Bills and real life have to happen. But for my husband I have a card for him and a small something his favorite dinner and a cake. Well he can't even get up with me this morning to bring our daughter to school since he took the day off with me (I dont work Mondays) and he stayed in bed didn't even say happy birthday. So I am upset. Am I wrong to be??