Anybody else find the BD with all the details about ovulation cycles and schedules ends up killing the romance? Does it make the BD more of a 'task' (horrible word choice, i know) and less about the enjoyment? I'm finding this, as a male, overly structured schedule, although imperative, to be a challenge. How have other couples worked through this? Improved the romance/experience? Especially when it is go-time, it's late at night, it's been a stressful and exhausting week at work, and you just want to crash out for the night.