Just curious

How long did it take you to have intercourse with the guy you're talking to/bf? I'm just curious because I feel like all the guys I talk to want it right away. And sadly I usually agree in hopes that that'll get him to like me. It's usually like a month in and even though I don't feel comfortable (cause I think there's more then sex to a relationship) I let it happen cause I feel like that's the normal nowadays. If you don't have sex they won't stay with you so I do it.