So instead on his vacation, he has gone fishing with his brother and friends and done all kinds of fun things, leaving me home with the baby bc I don't want her to be out in the sun.( she is 8 weeks).

When he is home with me he makes comments like he is bored, there is nothing to do etc. what the fuck? I mean I can't exactly go to the beach and lay there without a care in the world. I have to bf, pump , change the baby, play with her, among all of my wifely duties.

Today, because he was bored he decided to power wash the deck. I mean that's great and thanks but I need to pump and go to the grocery store to get dinner and crap like that. I asked him to hold the baby while I pump and the response... I'm all dirty can't yu just put her in the swing!?!? Yea that's great I want to pump and hear my kid screaming bloody murder while I'm attached to a machine making dinner for her.  Every time I ask him to hold her it's the excuse , I'm dirty, I'm all sweaty, I just went to th gym etc. I'm losing my patience

Not to mention I just got the comment from him that the house is bothering him bc it's all dirty and my stuff/ baby's stuff is all over the living room. Um excuse me where do you want me to put all of the laundry I'm folding, he swing, pack and play!?! Shall I put it in the basement or the garage that we DONT have!?!

Ok I'm don't with my vent now. And off to the grocery store! >:(