I started a relationship on a whim after splitting up with my childhood boyfriend (rebound) and i knew it werent right then he started getting really weird started by punching walls saying that was gonna be me soon then it was that he was gonna kill himself if i didnt stay with him... so i did i didnt want to be the reason for someone taking there life. Then he hit me once and promised he wouldnt do it again.... i believed him.. but he did. I fell pregnant but i knew i needed to get out as quickly as i could so i left him ... he had a knife to me when i was pregnant he followed me everywhere he pushed me down some stairs when i was 8 months pregnant... he stalked me. One night i was closing my bedroom curtains and noticed he was standing outside my house looking up at me. He was horrible. I left him for good. I had my healthy baby boy and since hes been born he has put soooo much shit about me all over social media saying im a horrible mom and i stop my child seeing his father blah blah... then when my son got to 3 months old he wasnt bothered my son is now two i am back in a relationship and engaged to my former bf (childhood sweetheart) and he is AMAZING with my son omg i couldnt of found anyone better he truly loves us. I see my ex walk or drive past us in the street all the time. He doesnt even look at 'his' son. I just wanted to write this post to say it will be ok and you can get through these horrible relationships and it isnt always bad. There is a light at the end of the tunnel and you need to get out now.