Dilation vent!

I've been have severe period cramps and lower back pain for 3 days now. I assumed that meant I was dilating. Went to dr today and my cervix is still long and only dilated to a 1. I'm 36+5 days and my dr is going on vacation the week before and the week I'm due :( my husband leaves for Colorado 2 days after my due date. Needless to say I really was hoping baby was almost ready to come out bc the way it looks, my husband and my dr will be MIA the time I need them the most 😭😭😭😭