Wasn't ready to get married..
My husband and I have been married for 3 months now, we dated for 3 years before getting married,we're both 19. We talked about getting but till we were both done with school and had good paying jobs. Unfortunately, it wasn't like that. We started getting asked constantly by family and friends when we were getting married, it got to a point where his mom started buying stuff for the reception so we gave in. We were practically forced to get married, I know a lot of people are going to say we have the right to say what we want and do what we want but it was so much pressure from both sides of the family and both of our friends we just couldn't take it anymore. We got married, and now three months into it we seriously regret it. We love each other and we want to be married one day and have a family but right now isn't a good time. We're happy and we both enjoy each other's company but it's just not going to workout if we stay married and living together. I cook, and clean and go to school and make sure he's happy at the end of the day, he helps around when he can, he works and also makes sure I end my day well but we're not ready for this. We weren't ready and we won't be for a couple of years more. We don't want an actual divorce, we don't want to feel like we're never going to take this step again if we do separate for now but it's just not something we want right now. We don't want it to seem like we're not happy with each other it's jus the idea of being married isn't working out for us right now. What should we do? How do I explain to my parents I'm moving back in? Or should we just see if we can make it work? We're not in need of money or cars or a home, he has an amazing job we both have our trucks that he's paying and we're renting an apartment. We just don't want to be like this for now :( thanks teens from now a days that are getting married and having kids at 14 and older, this is a reason we started getting so much pressure, 'well your 15 years old cousin is pregnant and married, you're both 19.get married already!' ugh!!!
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