On bed rest my husband won't help!

Anyone else have a husband that is just arrogant and self absorbed? I'm on bed rest cuz of bleeding and he won't help around the house he won't help me bathe the dog he won't help me do anything really. This is our first baby and I feel like he's just being a dick! I ask him all the time to help and he ways has the same excuse I don't have the energy right now Blablabla he does work so I understand a little but I wish he would help me too